A Lesson in Leadership . . . from a dog
I've been facing some challenges with Willie, our three-month-old AussieDoodle puppy. Like many dogs, he doesn't like the leash. Whenever I take him out for a walk, he sits down after a short distance and refuses to continue walking. I would then go back to where he is sitting and try to persuade him with harsh commands and treats, but it doesn't work. This is disheartening for me because I got Willie with the intention of having a dog I could walk with, and it seems like Willie has different ideas.
I started watching Cesar Millan's videos on YouTube and learned some amazing things, mostly about myself and a little bit about dogs. I discovered that Willie was actually training me, and I was unintentionally responding to his commands instead of the other way around. I realized the importance of showing leadership with Willie. Millan emphasizes that dogs are pack animals and search for a strong leader.
According to Millan, dogs respond strongly to the energy and body language of their owners. He encourages owners to be aware of their own emotional states and to project calm and assertive energy when interacting with their dogs. I learned that I was projecting negative energy to Willie. I also came to understand that Willie is a dog, and I had been treating him more like a person, avoiding actions that might hurt his feelings or make him angry. My main focus was gaining Willie's approval and love.
Today, I decided to try a different approach with Willie. I put the leash on him, took a deep breath, and told myself, "I'm in charge here." I stood up tall, emulating the confident leader that Cesar had described. Then, I began to walk. After a few steps, Willie sat down. Despite feeling the leash tighten, I didn't let it deter me. I continued walking purposefully and confidently. To my surprise, Willie followed me. This pattern was repeated three more times, and each time, I responded in the same manner. Eventually, Willie started walking right alongside me with a relaxed leash. It was the best 30-minute walk we've ever had and a rewarding experience for both of us.
Could dogs teach us about leadership? Cesar Millan says he rehabilitates dogs and trains humans. Most of the “problem dogs” that are brought to him are the result of human behavior. The dog is just being a dog. Maybe we create problem children and employees.
All I know is that we had a great walk together, and I’m looking forward to many more.